✨ You Were Never Meant to Fit In: Embracing Your Human Design
- Jennifer Grinder
- 19 hours ago
- 3 min read
Updated: 12 minutes ago
Lately, something has been standing out to me.
In the many Human Design readings I’ve been doing lately, I’ve noticed how often people resist what they see in their chart. Embracing your Human Design, especially the parts that don’t feel easy, can be one of the most healing and liberating things you do for yourself.
So often, when people see their chart for the first time, they don’t light up.
They resist.
They frown.
And they say things like:
"Oh… that’s me? That looks bad."
Not in a dramatic way.Not in rejection.
But in a quiet, subtle fear that really says, "Is this what’s wrong with me?"
I see:
Generators wishing they were Projectors so they didn’t feel like they had to do so much.
Projectors wishing they were Generators because rest is lazy.
Emotional Authorities wishing they weren’t emotional because they loathe their waves.
Defined Roots wishing they didn’t feel pressure and stress so they could just relax.
It’s almost like they want to trade in their design for what they think would be easier.
But here’s the thing: this chart, this energetic blueprint, it is YOU. It’s not random. It’s not a flaw. It’s literally how your energy moves through life.
And yet… so many people want to reject it.
We are conditioned to resist our uniqueness.
Why Embracing Your Human Design Can Feel So Hard at First
The more I sit with this, the more I see why.
From the time we are little, we are shaped to conform. To fit into systems, think school, work, society. To sit at desks, follow the same rules, learn the same way.
And if that doesn’t work for us? We are often labeled:
“You have ADHD.”
“You are too sensitive.”
“You are difficult.”
“You don’t focus like everyone else.”
But maybe… you weren’t supposed to.
Maybe your energetic blueprint was never meant to fit neatly into the systems designed to make us all the same.
Have you ever felt disappointed or unsure when you first saw your Human Design chart?
Yes, I didn’t like what I saw at first
A little, it took time to accept
No, I felt immediately seen
I haven’t seen my chart yet
When I first saw my chart, I felt it.
I remember looking at my bodygraph for the very first time.
I had no idea what it meant. I didn’t understand the gates, the centers, the profile.
But something in me knew this was me. I felt seen by it, before I even knew how to interpret it.
As I got deeper into Human Design and began understanding the details, something powerful happened:
I finally had words for why I was the way I was. I could point to something and say “This is why I feel this. This is why I operate this way.”
And that gave me permission to stop fighting myself.
Embracing your uniqueness unlocks everything.
When you lean into your true energetic nature:
You stop chasing who you think you should be.
You release burnout, bitterness, frustration, anger, and disappointment.
You create flow, rhythm, and alignment because you are finally working with yourself, not against.
Your uniqueness isn’t a problem.
It’s your portal.
This week, I invite you to sit with this:
Where are you still trying to be like everyone else? Where do you wish you were more “normal,” easier, or more like what you see others being?
And what if, just for this week, you let yourself be fully and unapologetically you?
This is where your magic lives.
Ready to explore your blueprint more deeply?
If you’re ready to stop resisting and start embracing your true design, my Soul Alignment Spark Readings are the perfect next step.
They offer quick, illuminating insight to help you reconnect to your natural energy and live more fully as YOU.
